Is it emotionally harmful to be involved in a relationship that has no clear definition of first, its goal, and second, its boundaries?
I’m asking myself and anyone who understands what I am talking about–
What are we doing with our lives?
What are our ultimate goals?
Why should we spend so much time investing in people who are not going to help us reach those goals, who are ultimately going to cause us hurt because we were too busy being in love to see a bigger picture?
Why don’t we learn from our past mistakes and run-ins with our emotions, why aren’t we wiser next time we have that fluttery feeling about someone?
Why don’t we listen to the people around us who love us and have experience and know better?
WHY ARE WE SO STUPID???